I felt like Lucy Pevensie, opening the wardrobe door and entering the magical world of Narnia, as I crossed the threshold of the white-bricked historic home to attend a friend’s surprise birthday party on Sunday.
Only I had stepped onto the pages of a home decorating magazine.
An eclectic, but pleasing arrangement of shabby chic style furniture filled the living room, which was also inhabited by little bird figurines and mossy nests. The dining room table in the adjoining room was elegantly set with black and white china, napkins and silverware, as if dinner guests were expected at any moment. (They were not. We were there for a casual BBQ on the back patio.) Throughout the house, vintage glass dishes and bowls had been repurposed into charming candle holders, set amidst accents of rustic burlap and greenery.
(Even the cats were dining out of whimsical little decorative dishes in assorted shapes and colors. I kid you not.)
It was quite fanciful.
I was taking it all in when a joy-robbing thought intruded, dispersing my delight and inviting envy:
My house looks nothing like this.
Oh, I try. But my best attempts at “shabby chic” just end up looking…shabby. When I display my flea market finds, the effect is somewhat…flea-ting. (Sorry, just couldn’t resist.)
I “tried” again the following night as we prepared to host a couple of friends for dinner. Inspired by my visit to The Amazingly Decorated Home, I tied some scraps of burlap ribbon to several canning jars and arranged some random candles inside. I bought some pretty white flowers for a centerpiece. (I even remembered to move the plastic cat dish OFF of the table before we ate.)
Need I say more?
My house will never look like hers.
And you know what? It’s O.K.
Because while I may not have inherited the decorating gene, I am gifted. So are you. God says so.
There are different kinds of spiritual gifts, but the same Spirit is the source of them all. There are different kinds of service, but we serve the same Lord. God works in different ways, but it is the same God who does the work in all of us. A spiritual gift is given to each of us so we can help each other. (1 Corinthians 12:4-7, NLT)
I love to teach. There’s just something about digging into God’s Word and unearthing hidden gems that thrills my soul. I have trouble keeping them to myself! God made me this way.
What is your gift?* Is it serving behind the scenes? Showing compassion to the hurting? Leading the way? Creating a home that invites and delights?
Whatever it is, remember God is the Distributor.
It is the one and only Spirit who distributes all these gifts. He alone decides which gift each person should have. (1 Corinthians 12:11, NLT).
Who are we to compare? I want to be so secure in who God created me to be that I am free to enjoy and embrace others’ giftedness.
God has put each part just where he wants it. (1 Corinthians 12:18b, NLT)
God is the Designer. When we offer our gifts to His service, He will arrange them masterfully. Even those that are chipped and faded can be transformed into objects of beauty and usefulness in His hands. Each of us has a unique and special place in His design.
We all have talents to bring to the table.
Let’s share and celebrate them instead of comparing and envying them.
*For a brief Spiritual Gifts Inventory, you can follow this link: http://59384.inspyred.com/images/Spiritual%20Gifts%20Test.PDF
I love it! What a great and greatly needed reminder! Thank you and well said, friend.